Education and Happiness

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Currently the thing which is being given on the name of Education is the training or skills to earn more and more money and become successful. I do not argue on its rightness or wrongness, but I want to understand if that is sufficient? Is this kind of Education complete?

So what is missing from this Education System?

If we try to identify what is the right kind of Education then above question will get automatically answered.

If we see our lives then we find that it includes concerns related to schooling, college/higher education, job, marriage, children, social/financial security, old age, death! Is this sufficient for a human being to live? I say No. Even in this kind of living we can see that we are not happy in any phase of it. I remember I was not happy in the schooling. I never knew why I am studying all this which I am studying. I just used to feel that to become successful person and to earn a living one needs to study. Since the purpose was to earn a living and to become successful person which will happen after completion of my higher studies at least so the journey in education used to be very tough. I do not used to enjoy it. I had to mug, I had to suffer, I had to face the fear of exams, assignments, home works and also the scoldings of parents and teachers if I do not do them. I had to go against my willingness. A thing when done without seeing the right purpose behind it doesn’t preserve our interest for long. Same was the case in college and even after having come into the job. In schooling I had to study to get a good grade, in college I had to study good percentage and in job I have to do it to earn money. Even in school and college ultimately the purpose was to get a good job, earn more and more money and become successful.

If we see that most of us have the same story. In this urge to earn more and more money and to become succesful what we have achieved? A rat race. In this race everybody is running to be ahead of other without knowing where one really wants to go. What it is leading to? It is leading to, exploitation. Feeling of deprivation is the basis of exploitation. Exploitation leads to corruption, opposition, struggle, wars and world wars. It is chain and we all are into it.

With current kind of system where do we stand,

1. Criminal mentality in Humans.

2. Poor relationships in family and Insecurity in Family.

3. Disorganized and Insecure Society.

4. Imbalance in Nature. Global Warming etc.

We see that this is not sufficient for us. At least I can say it for myself. Others can also verify it for them. The major thing which comes into mind now is, if not this then what? This is where we need to think. We do not know alternative. We do not know alternative because we do not know purpose of our living! If purpose of living to a human being is clear then other things will automatically align accordingly.

What is the purpose of living?

There are two basic questions which a human being has:-
1. What do I want?
2. How can I achieve it?

What do I want? It is, Happiness, Prosperity and Continuity of these two.

These two basic questions related to a human being are not addressed in our current education system. In fact if we see closely then we find that a “human being” is never a part of discussion in our entire education system. Without understanding what a human being really wants we can not ever ask the question, how I can achieve which I really want?

We see several problems at the level of Nature, Society, Family and Individual. Problems at the level of Nature are due to lack of organization and harmony at the level of Society. Problems at the level of Society is the manifestation of problems at the level of Family and problems at the level of Family are due to lack of understanding at the level of Individual.

Right Understanding at the level of Individual ensures, Trust/Confidence within that individual, Harmony within that individual, right behavior by him with others around him, others around him start getting assured with him, right utilization, conservation and protection of resources by him.

With Right Understanding within every member of family comes the harmony in family. Harmony in family is the manifestation of harmony within the individual with Right Understanding being the base of it. It ensures prosperity and continuity of prosperity in family due to the feeling of being related, which ensures security financially, emotionally and in every other aspect.

Expression of harmony in Family and in Individual, is the harmony at the level of Society. Ultimately it is the people to make the society. If perception and attitutude of people are changed then everything can change. Only Right Understanding can change it.

A human being by birth has this expectation of Certainty, Consistency and Continuity of Happiness. He expects Unconditional Acceptance from others around. He is willing to do Right and behave Rightly, but due to lack of Right Understanding of willingness and the means to fulfill it one lacks the competence to make himself Happy and make others Happy. Ultimately it gives rise to a system where everyone expects others to make him happy but lacks the competence to make others happy. Here this becomes important to notice that Right Understanding is the basis of Happiness in an individual. It is a basic need of individual. Right Understanding includes, understanding of Self, Family, Society and Nature.

Currently if we notice then in education we learn skills to earn more and more money and become succesful and do not get Right Understanding. Purpose of education has become limited to learning skills so that one can earn more and more money and become succesfull. Study of Human, Humanness, Human Society, Human Culture, Human Tradition etc. are not part of education. Unless this becomes part of education the kind of system we have developed is bound to be like this, in which everybody wants security and everybody feels insecure.

So the answer to the question, How can I achieve what I really want? is,

With Right Understanding within every Individual about Self, Family, Society and Nature, which ensures,

Right Relationships and Harmony in Family, which ensures,

Harmony in Society, which ensures,

Harmony in Nature.

3 responses »

  1. Do I really need to want to achieve something in order to live? Can’t I just go on with my life with-out any goals set out-right?

    What is so wrong in wanting to earn more money? I just want to lead a happy life. The first prerequisite that comes to my mind is that I need to have some financial security.

    “I had to mug, I had to suffer, I had to face the fear of exams, assignments, home works and also the scoldings of parents and teachers if I do not do them. I had to go against my willingness.”

    I don’t see this as a bad thing. All these experiences make you what you are right now. You may not like them, but these things are important.

    Regarding imbalance in nature and global warming. These are side effects to the progress humanity has been making through science. We as a species have been gifted with an ability to think, invent and innovate. This gift should not be given up to maintain a balance in nature. We need to use science to restore this balance, but not stop everything that we are doing.

  2. @Anonymous:

    Thanks for your comment.
    I would like to further elaborate on what I want to say.

    “Do I really need to want to achieve something in order to live? Can’t I just go on with my life with-out any goals set out-right?”

    Goal for a human being is already set i.e. “Happiness and Continuity of it”. This is a goal which is not set by a human being. It is always there by default. It is naturally there. It just need to be recognized rightly and fulfilled by right means. You can notice that all your works are happening for the sake of ensuring Happiness and Continuity of it only.

    “What is so wrong in wanting to earn more money? I just want to lead a happy life. The first prerequisite that comes to my mind is that I need to have some financial security.”

    I never said that earning money is wrong. I am doing it myself. I just added that living just for earning money is not sufficient for a human being to live. He wants something more than that. What is that “something more”? It is
    Happiness + Relationships + Prosperity + Continuity of these 3.
    If fact if we notice then the most of the problems which we have in our families are NOT due to lack of money but due to lack of understanding and fulfillment of relationships. “Reliance Brothers” are a good example for it.

    “I don’t see this as a bad thing. All these experiences make you what you are right now. You may not like them, but these things are important.”

    I agree that I had to go through all those experiences to be able to earn money now which is needed to me. This is true in current system, current scenario. My question here is, is this one really wants?Are we happy doing it? In current scenario this is what is one is supposed/forced to do. I am just trying to draw attention that this is not one wants to do, one wants happiness and also the happy means to happiness. I am trying to propose a new system rather than just criticizing the existing system.

    “Regarding imbalance in nature and global warming. These are side effects to the progress humanity has been making through science.”

    If we destroy nature then we ourselves will not be left to progress. We are dependent on it. And, is there any definition of progress without understanding where one really wants to go? If we take current thing as progress then what is the goal of it? Where we really want to go? and what kind of environment we are developing in the process of achieving that goal?
    I proposed that the goal of human race is,
    Right Understanding in every individual.
    Prosperity in every family.
    Fearlessness in society,
    and, Co-Existence in nature.

    “We as a species have been gifted with an ability to think, invent and innovate. This gift should not be given up to maintain a balance in nature.”

    I repeat, if we do not maintain nature then we ourselves will not be left to think, invent and innovate. And there has to be some direction to what we are doing. We need to consider nature aspects too while doing what we are doing.

    “We need to use science to restore this balance, but not stop everything that we are doing.”

    I never said we should stop doing something. I only said that we need to understand right and do right. What I mean by right is already written in the post.

    If you could reveal your identity and talk face to face then probably we can have a better discussion.

    With Regards,
    Devansh

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